Your bridesmaids have been chosen and the wedding planning has begun! Now is the perfect time to clarify the duties of the bridesmaids.

The following is a list of the traditional responsibilities for bridesmaids before the wedding. Read them, print them off, and adapt them to your wedding needs.

Traditionally, before the wedding, the bridesmaid:
  • Is part of the emotional support team for the bride
  • Helps bride with pre-wedding tasks, such as addressing invitations, making wedding favours, and running other such errands
  • Helps shop for and may choose the bridesmaid dress
  • Attends all pre-wedding parties
  • Collaborates with maid of honour to plan and host bridal shower or bachelorette party
  • Subtly let guests know where the engaged couple has registered
  • Pays for her own bridesmaids gown and accessories
  • Ensures she is available for gown fittings and rehearsals
  • Contributes to a gift from all the bridesmaids to the bride and may also give a separate gift to the married couple
  • Pays for own transportation to the wedding city if she is coming from out of town
  • Conducts herself in a positive and constructive manner throughout the wedding planning process even in the most stressful times